As I may have written, I do not want to talk of passing. Better to speak of blending. The question is, how well do I blend? I honestly don’t know and it bothers me and I want the help of others to find out.
When dolled up, I do get some creepy or nice men flirting sometimes, and I do get some catcalls. But are these people seeing me as a woman or as a fetish?
Do people who see me casually all know I am trans, or are there some who actually do not? I would like to know, if nothing else then so as to know where I am developmentally.
lost in transition 