So I’ve had a lot of comings out lately. What I have not had, is anyone expressing surprise. I don’t know why. Of course I would want it to mean I already always was so feminine or so genderqueer that it really was no surprise. I did try to prepare the path so as to achieve that, also. But more likely is perhaps that people simply don’t care much in the circles I move? Or that they are too polite to be surprised. I don’t know and I am curious. Have I come out to you as trans? Were you surprised, or was this entirely in keeping with what you knew of me? Let me know if you want.